Liar, Liar
Oh what a tangled web we weave, When first we practise to deceive!
We all do it. Lie. For those of you, giving a vigorous shake of the head right now or eyebrow lift or head tilt....YES, you too .
Think about it. We all come with guises that force us into deceitful positions of varying degrees. As parents, we lie, Santa, Easter Bunny, birds and bees .......as employees we lie, about our reviews, confidential information, departmental secrets.
We call lying all sorts of names: fantasy, tact, comic relief, sensitivity, secrets, vows. Lets classify Liar's body language and varying degree of skills. Level one: Fibbers Level two: Scammers Level three: Paths (Pathological Liars)
Action |
Details |
Skill Level |
Spatial Avoidance |
Liars are generally uncomfortable facing those they lie to. Creating space between them and the victim. |
Fibbers Scammers Paths |
Hiding |
Hiding behind objects, desks, doorways, counters etc. |
Fibbers Scammers |
Face/Mouth Cover |
Direct mouth covering to lightly touching areas around the mouth, steepling on the lips etc. |
Fibbers Scammers |
Fidget |
Nervous tapping, foot shaking, collar adjustments, lint picking, organizing items |
Fibbers Scammers |
Posture Changes |
Crossing legs Tensing of shoulders |
Fibbers Scammers |
Eye Contact |
Eye shifting and not looking directly at counterpart is a good indicator but the direction of the shift could be useful: Up-Right (Creating a visual lie) Right (Creating auditory lie) Please note down right is recalling feelings, not lying. Down-Right (Kinesthetic) |
Fibbers Scammers Paths |
Smiling |
Plastering a smile on faces, giggling |
Fibbers |
Fake smiling |
Smiling with lips only eyes not smiling |
Fibbers Scammers |
Slowing down |
Walking and speaking slower |
Scammers Paths |
Behaviour Deviation |
Any extreme changes in behaviour could possibly a sign of lying. |
Fibbers |
Delayed Emotion |
Not displaying the appropriate emotional behaviour when making statement, but a few seconds afterwards. Often cutting the emotion short after it is displayed. |
Scammers |
Defensive |
Displaying defensiveness behaviour instead of offensive behaviour |
Fibbers Scammers Paths |
Indirect Statements or answers |
Avoiding using direct statements and quote that he said, she said. Answering with questions or humour |
Fibbers, Scammers |
Unnecessary Details |
Giving far more detail than necessary |
Fibbers,Scammers Paths |
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