Saturday, May 19, 2007

Arrogant BL take Two

Believe it or not there are more ARROGANT body language postures in the spectrum of movements.

So I'll take this opportunity to give you a few non verbals and throw in some para verbals. Para verbals refer to the tone of the language.

THE STARE

Ground Rules for the stare

  • It gets to be uncomfortable if you go much beyond about five seconds of eye contact. Five seconds is all you need for connection.
  • In a conversation no more than 60 % of the conversation should be eye contact.

Anything more will be too intense and can be misinterpreted as arrogance.

Too Much Space

Look out for those who take up too much space.....either by invading your personal space, wide stance, crossing legs at the ankle, increasing their volume to fill the space. (Paraverbals)

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